Recently I was asked to schedule a conference with my son’s soccer coach. Much like the conferences I had just attended at his school, it was to include the coach, my son, and his parents. We would review his progress, listen to any comments or feedback from my son, and set some goals for his future growth. A little background: It’s a travel team, which plays year round. When he’s not playing the game himself, my son follows a team in the British Premier League with fervor. Their crest decorates his room, adorns his clothing and school backpack, the their app is forever alerting him to their progress. He even styles his hair in the fashion of the players he admires! To be sure, he’s “all in”. In the course of the discussion, the coach reveals that he intends to name my son as a captain of his team for the coming season. My son, while quiet and reserved, is clearly stoked ! He dutifully sits through the rest o...